Thursday, November 29, 2018

Chapter 32:Family Reunion & Pilgrimage to Rameshwaram


Rameshwaram

We had obtained Shriji's permission to meet his family by going to Madras. After deciding to go to Rameshwaram we had informed Shriji's family of our coming to Madras by writing a letter to them.  



Shriji with Younger Brothers & Sister

Shri ji's broher Shri Mohanji had sent us a photograph of his younger brother Jyoti, sister Indira and himself so that we could identify them at the Madras railway station whereas we had sent them Shriji's photograph.  



Shriji & His Parikar Start from Vrindavan

These days saint Gangaram, whom the readers are already familiar with, was living in Madras itself. He had a large circle of associates there. We had sent him a telegram informing him about our arrival. Along with Shriji, Deviji, Ghanshyamji, Deviji's father, Krishnaji, Kusumji, Rasikbihariji and I started for the pilgrimage to Rameshwaram from Vrindavan. 





Shriji With His Inner Circle of Devotees in Ganga Mandir


 The living of the inmates of Ganga Mandir was austerely simple so there was no monetary arrangement. Managing to somehow arrange for the expenses which would be incurred on the journey we departed and reached Madras on the third day. 

Standing on the platform along with many of his devotees, saint Gangaram held a garland in his hands to welcome Shriji. Mohanji (Shriji's brother) had been intimated of our arrival by telegram but the date therein read wrongly so he could not come to the station.


 

Saint Gangaram Held a Garland for Shriji

As soon as Shriji got down from the train Gangaramji garlanded him and taking him, came out of the platform. He had brought two cars with him. Getting into them we all went to Shri Gangaramji's residence. Carpets had been laid out and arrangements had been made beforehand. Many men and women were present for Shriji's darshan. After taking refreshments Shriji rested for a while. I asked Gangaramji to locate Mohanji so he instantly sent a disciple with me.  



Egmore Railway Station

We reached 'Egmore[1]' on motorcycle. Searching for some time we could trace his home. Instantly, Mohanji set off with us to meet Shriji.

In any case, I had the camera with me. Since we had got down from the train I was sequentially taking all the photographs of Shriji. Now, I clicked the camera to take a photograph of Shriji's first meeting with Mohanji. Along with Shriji he took all of us to his house. It is a custom here that if the mother and son meet after an interval of twelve years, the mother first sees the reflection of her son's face in the mirror and  then sees his face.  



A Hand Mirror

So Shriji's mother sat in a room with a mirror in her hand. Shriji came from the back and looked into the mirror. After seeing the reflection of Shriji's face his mother turned around and saw the face of her son in front. She impatiently caught her long- separated son with both her hands and hugged him to her heart. This meeting was remarkable. Venerable mother Kamalamma's heart instantly overflowed with emotion when she saw Shriji after so many years.

However, Shriji was a saint so he seriously went on consoling his mother. All his brothers and sisters sat down, surrounding him. 



The Tamil Script


What his mother spoke to Shriji out of maternal impulse in Tamil, is indescribable. She was speaking continuously. Because of being ignorant of this language we were not able to understand a word but could make out that the mother was irrigating her son with the water of motherly affection. Gradually the atmosphere became normal and the mother as well as family members busied themselves in making arrangements for serving us meals. Shriji's father had gone on a pilgrimage since the past few months so we could not see him. Offering some leaves and flowers to Shriji's mother, we touched her feet.



Shriji with Elder Sister Yadugiri

Yadugiri, the elder sister of Maharajji, was at home. Her husband Ram Ayyangar was working as a doctor in a ship of the merchant navy and used to reside in Madras itself. He would visit Shriji and tape all the padas sung by him. One fine day he took Shriji and all of us to his bungalow by car. He showed the  bungalow, garden and puja room to Shriji. Sister Yadugiri's husband applied a sandal paste tilak[2] and garlanded Shriji besides serving meals to him and his circle of associates. The menu consisted of dishes typical of that region. He kept a list of the delicacies by the side of each of us and told us about the items while serving them.


 
Shriji's Mother Pampered Him

For full fifteen days, Shriji's mother pampered her son to her heart's content, applying ubtan[3], bathing him with her own hands, oiling his hair and combing them and serving food herself after she had cooked it. 



Bangalore

Staying here for a span of fifteen days we went to Shriji's younger sister Vedavalli's place in Bangalore. She too met Shriji very lovingly. Shedding tears she reminded Shriji of that day when he had renounced home and left her sleeping. Her husband was out of station so we could not meet him. Staying with her for eight days we started on our pilgrimage to Rameshwararm. 



The Meenakshi Temple

Within eight days we visited the sacred sites of Rameshwaram, Srirangam, Tirupati Balaji, Meenakshi Temple etc., and came back to Madras. Staying her for two days, we bid farewell to return to Vrindavan.

The entire family came to the railway station to see us off. Shri Gangaramji had also come with his group of disciples. Shriji had to just board the train when his mother's love burst forth. Streams of Ganga and Yamuna flowed from both her eyes.

“ Kindly take good care of Sampat Kumar,” she told me in a voice choked with emotion.


The Train Chugged Off

The whole scene was very touching as tears were streaming down the cheeks of  of Shriji's brothers and sister. Shri Gangaram garlanded Shriji and all of us. Soon after, the train chugged off. The whole lot of them stood motionless like a painted picture with tears flowing from their eyes. In due time all of us reached Shri Dham Vrindavan.


Shri Vrindavan

His family members wrote to Shriji's father about Shri ji's arrival in Madras and his return to Shri Dham. A month later he reached Vrindavan after performing his pilgrimage. Shriji had been informed about his father's coming to Shri Dham but he did not wish to meet him at once. Shriji felt that the intensity of his father's affection for him should lessen on his coming here before they met. Therefore Shriji remained imperceptible for a couple of days in Vrindavan. Not finding him on his arrival, the father was very distressed. Somehow he passed those days, being consoled by us. We would inform Shriji of his father's condition every day. Even though he stayed in a family his lifestyle was saintlike. He was tall like Shriji and bore panchkesh[4]. Of course, he was fair-complexioned.


The Lanes of Vrindavan

So Shriji's father roamed about in the lanes of Vrindavan singing devotional hymns and ringing cymbals. As decided, Shriji came in the morning of the fourth day when his father was wearing just a kopeen or loin-cloth and having oiled his body was waiting to take a bath. He forgot everything the instant he saw Shriji. He ran to him and hugged Shriji in that very state. Weeping, he kept mumbling something in his language, in a choked voice. Shriji sat seriously, speaking one or two words of consolation in between. His father was clinging to him in several ways. Seeing his condition it seemed as if he had become insane. 


 
Shriji's Father Hugging Him


When Shriji went and sat on the bed, he too went and sat on it. 




 
Shriji's Father Showers Affection on Him

Encircling Shriji's waist with both his legs, he began kissing him vehemently. We kept watching this excellent scene of parental affection. With great difficulty Shriji pacified his father. Being out of practice for so many years Shriji had forgotten his mother tongue. With great difficulty he would try to recollect the language and talk.
 

Shri Banke Bihari ji, Vrindavan


Eight days after the arrival of Shriji's father we left Ganga Mandir and shifted to stay in Shri Laluji's, a goswami of Shri Bihariji, Shri Gopal Mandir (on the Jugal Ghat.)Shriji's father stayed close to him for a month at this Mandir. Shriji's inner circle of associates devotedly attended to his needs in several ways and honoured him by giving him a gift of flowers when he was leaving. 

 Rishikesh

His father went to Rishikesh from here whereas Shriji stayed at Shri Vrindavan Dham for about six months.


[1]    Egmore: one of the busiest neighbourhoods of Chennai
[2]    Tilak:a distinctive spot of colored powder or paste worn on the forehead by Hindu men and women as a religious symbol.
       
[3]    Ubtan: a paste made of meal, turmeric, oil and perfume
[4]    Panchkesh: uncut hair of five limbs

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